8.07.2007

All seperation matters are FINAL!

8 months, 2 days, 23 hours, and 30 minutes after Christa broke my last infidelity straw which prompted me to leave her and move out of my house temporarily, she has signed the final settlement agreement! It's been a long time coming, and WAY too much craziness happening, but time has flown by pretty quick. If you read this blog Christa, thank you for finally ending this nonsense.

She'll be vacating my house on November 1st, and I'll be moving back in after some massive cleaning efforts. I'm eyeballing black Friday as a move date. Anyone interested in helping me move all the stuff BACK to where it belongs, let me know.

Thanks to all for the support, temporary relocation assistance, and for being sounding boards! Thanks Dad, Mom, Mary, Mark B, Mark Z (good luck dude), Scott, Jennifer, Tracy, Shannon, Mariya, Lori, Troy, and everyone else!

The final divorce will be in the next month or two, but won't really change too much. It's just the legal finalization of a marriage. I'm going to let the dust and finances settle for a bit first. One day I'll write a book on this adventure, but in the meantime I'll be nice and keep the drama to myself (well, and my personal sounding boards, lol).

Luckily, the kids seem to be pretty shielded from the divorce drama, and are still doing GREAT.

For all of those going through a divorce, or contemplating it - do it amicably and split everything down the middle. It's mathematically simple. I can understand the temptation to argue and "screw over" someone you once loved, but it's is nonsensical. But if you still want to try the Jerry Springer route, the courts, social services, the facts, and the judges will straighten you out eventually. Don't waste your money.

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